Wonderful Journey

The definition of being successful

2009-10-30T12:40:00.001+01:00

Successful is the person who has lived well, laughed often and loved much, who has gained the respect of children, who leaves the world better than they found it, who has never lacked appreciation for the earth's beauty, who never fails to look for the best in others or give the best of themselves.

Don't quit

2009-01-14T16:39:00.000+01:00

Don't Quit
by Author Unknown
When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
when the road you're trudging seems all up hill,
when the funds are low and the debts are high,
and you want to smile but you have to sigh,
when care is pressing you down a bit - rest if you must,
but don't you quit.

Life is queer with its twists and turns.
As everyone of us sometimes learns.
And many a failure turns about when he might have won had he stuck it out.
Don't give up though the pace seems slow - you may succeed with another blow.

Often the goal is nearer than it seems to a faint and faltering man;
often the struggler has given up when he might have captured the victor's cup;
and he learned too late when the night came down,
how close he was to the golden crown.

Success is failure turned inside out - the silver tint of the clouds of doubt,
and you never can tell how close you are,
it may be near when it seem so far;
so stick to the fight when you're hardest hit - it's when things seem worse,
that you must not quit.

Before Xmas Eve

2008-12-24T16:33:00.002+01:00

I learned a great lesson from life today.:)

You do not have to have any reason in order to be happy, the same as you do not have to wait for certain things happen to be happy, cause life is such a broad view and such a big dynamics picture and great view, if you are only focusing on one thing which it out of your control, and you gonna be blind and neglect all those wonderful things in your life which deserves your appreciations and attentions.

Again, life is wonderful, is magic, because you never can tell what is going to happen, enjoy life, "Think of your life as if it were a banquet where you would behave graciously. When dishes are passed to you, extend your hand and help yourself to a moderate portion. If a dish should pass you by, enjoy what is already on your plate. Or if the dish hasn't been passed to you yet, patiently wait your turn."

The Notebook

2008-11-15T00:48:00.006+01:00

Haven't felt so overwhelming about a movie for so long! "The notebook" brought me back!What an incredible love story, it really inspires me, and awake the heart which has so much doubt about love, what an incredible soul nurturing film.

I played the ending part again and again, my heart got so incredibly shocked by the movie, what do you ask life for? Yes, I believe miracles, that is why life is beautiful,I believe in true love, that is why we are stretching out, even though we got hurt, we got bruise, we never would give up!

Allie: I need to ask you something.
Noah: What is it sweetheart?
Allie: Do you think that our love can create miracles?
Noah: Yes I do. That's what brings you back to me each time.
Allie: Do you think our love can take us away together?
Noah: I think our love can do anything we want it to.
Allie: I love you.
Noah: I love you Allie.

What a regret it would be, if in our life, we never fight for our love with all of our heart, just fight, regardless everything it seems matters.

Noah: The best love is the kind that awakens the soul; that makes us reach for more, that plants the fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. That's what I hope to give you forever.

Allie: Why didn't you write me? Why!? It wasn't over for me. I waited for you for seven years. And now it's too late!
Noah: I wrote you 365 letters. I wrote you every day for a year.
Allie: You wrote me?
Noah: Yes! It wasn't over. Still isn't over.

They are really lucky, how many people would have the second chance?

Dr. Barnwell: So I understand that you read to Mrs. Hamilton.
Duke: Yep, to help her remember.
Dr. Barnwell: Hmmmmm
Duke: You don't think it'll help?
Dr. Barnwell: No I don't.
Duke: She remembers doc. I read to her and she remembers. Not always, but she remembers.
Dr. Barnwell: Dimentia is irreversible. It's degenerative. After a certain point it's victims don't come back.
Duke: That's what they keep telling me.
Dr. Barnwell: Well I just don't want you to get your hopes up.
Duke: Well thanks doc, but you know what they say, science goes only so far and then comes God.
Dr. Barnwell: Then comes God.

Would you believe all the things others keep on telling you? or rather a belief of your own? All the great people have the same character, they never chose to believe what the mass believed, and they created their own belief, and hold it on very hard, so that no one would ever steal it from them.

Allie: What happens if a car comes?
Noah: You die.
Allie: What!?
Noah: Just relax. Just trust. You need to learn how to trust.

Is it really true? We need to learn how to trust, and we need to learn in order to trust, we need to trust in order to give our mind peace, which maybe not a instinct behavior of human being. Do we born to have so much doubts about others? We need to learn how to trust, we need to learn, it is not natural, but rather a choice of your own.

Duke: I am no one special. Just a common man with common thoughts. There are no monuments dedicated to me and my name will soon be forgotten. But in one respect I have succeeded as gloriously as anyone who ever lived. I've loved another with all my heart and soul and for me that has always been enough.

What a great happiness, what a proud statement, how many of us could have the courage to even once love another with all your heart and soul. And I know whenever you gave whatever all you have, you can always make it through,and that is when miracle comes to you!

Brida

2008-11-13T23:57:00.005+01:00

How can you know who is your soul mate? The first time I finish reading this book, I kind of feeling sad for Brida's choice, why not go for the teacher who has the same mission as you do? But the impression of this book in my heart is bit by bit getting clear and clear, how do we define the soul mate?

In the end, I really do understand Brida now, I think I will choose the same if I were her! The one who hold you back in your dark time, the one who really understands.

Rules of the wild

2008-11-13T23:36:00.005+01:00

Another great book after the White Masai:)

Am I preparing myself? just have stronger and stronger emotion to Africa. This wild place, with lots of adventure and risks. This is something I really look for!

Love had very little to do with fear and emotional sabotage, love had to do with Trust!

What a conflict of love story in the book, can you really tell, sometimes, which one is the one you really love? the incredible secure reliable and warm "Adam" or the desperate romantic adventurer "Hunter"?

I have been wounded and the wound has made me stronger.

Some quotes to keep me up!

2008-11-09T01:18:00.003+01:00

You cannot make yourself feel something you do not feel, but you can make yourself do right in spite of your feelings.

你无法让自己感觉你没感觉到的，但你却可以让自己不顾你的感觉去做正确的事。

To succeed, we must first believe that we can.

成功的首要条件是相信自己。

To fly, we must have resistance.

要想飞行，就必须有阻力。

Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.

友善的词句是简单而容易说出口的，但它们的回响却是真诚而无止境的。

An optimist fell ten stories and at each window bar, he shouted to his friends, "All right so far!"

一位乐观者有十次失败的经历，但在每一次希望面前，他总对他的朋友们喊：“一切就会好的！”

One does not discover new lands without consenting to lose sight of the shore for a very long time.

没有长时间离开海岸是无法发现新大陆的。（不入虎穴焉得虎子。）

I prefer the folly of enthusiasm to the indifference of wisdom.

我宁愿要愚蠢的热情，也不愿要冷漠的智慧。

最初的梦想

2008-11-03T21:22:00.003+01:00

This song is an encouragement from my best friend, and it really help me to go through many many hard times in the past, and it just perfectly describe those who are going through a hard time! Always feel so touched whenever I listen to it.

如果骄傲没被现实大海冷冷拍下
又怎会懂得要多努力
才走得到远方
如果梦想不曾坠落悬崖
千钧一发
又怎会晓得执着的人
拥有隐形翅榜
把眼泪装在心上
会开出勇敢的花
可以在疲惫的时光
闭上眼睛闻到一种芬芳
就像好好睡了一夜直到天亮
又能边走着边哼着歌
用轻快的步伐
沮丧时总会明显感到孤独的重量
多渴望懂得的人给些温暖借个肩膀
很高兴一路上我们的默契那么长
穿过风又绕个弯心还连着
像往常一样
最初的梦想紧握在手上
最想要去的地方
怎么能在半路就返航
最初的梦想绝对会到达
实现了真的渴望
才能够算到过了天堂

有时辛酸，有时孤寂

2008-11-03T20:21:00.002+01:00

其实我并不想去抱怨我所经历的一切，我努力不要让自己去觉得委屈和难过，不要为自己经历的曲折而伤感，可是，我还是会隐隐的体会到那种发自内心的辛酸和孤寂。我无法向任何人诉说，因为所有人都会很亲切的安慰，留下的，还是自己要走过的，和只有自己才能够体会到的辛酸。

我一直都在很坚强的跟父亲说，我一点都不辛苦，我喜欢这种辛苦，其实，也只是期望不要让家人对我有太多的担心而已。我在想，也许这种实实在在的辛酸感受，这种孤寂的担心害怕的担心，也许也是你成功的一部分吧，有真的有多少人能够淡然自若的去走过这一切，也许走过的人，才是真正的懂得和明白生活的人。我是多么的渴望自己能够从容的面对一切，多么希望自己有足够的坚强来走过这一程，这次真的好难，燕子在寒冷的冬天，似乎羽翼并不是那么的强劲有力。

燕子，我明白我体会到的寒冷，我体会到的担忧，我明白前路的艰辛和曲折，我明白，也许我一个人还会经历更多更多的波折，但是，我明白，也坚信的是，燕子是不会轻易放弃的，燕子是一个勇敢的为梦想，为成长，为生活而拼搏的勇敢女孩。燕子，有的时候，我觉得我对你其实特别残忍，我总是把你放置在绝境的边缘，总是驱使你去选择一条最难走的路，总是让你去挑战不可能，总是把你从温暖和舒适中抛出，总是让你独自一人，去面对所有的挑战，但是燕子，这是因为，我明白，你不是一个软弱的燕子，因为我明白你的血液里流淌的是不安分的因子，我明白，只有这种痛到及至，这种苦到及至的经历才能激发你的成长，才能让你变成一个更从容，更宽广，更优秀的人。

有梦想的人，是幸福的，为梦想而拼搏的人，是快乐的，如此看来，我真的是一个既幸福又快乐的人，我还有什么不满足的呢？我相信，我所走过的每一步，我所经历的每一次挫折和难关，都是有意义的，都是我迈向自己最终梦想的必不可少的一步，当我回头来看，都将是闪烁的，刻骨铭心的回忆。

Those wonderful people in my life!

2008-10-13T16:17:00.002+02:00

随笔

2008-09-24T23:39:00.003+02:00

心中的忧虑渐渐的积累着，在无尽的等待之中，不得不开始继续去寻找新的机会。又是在怎样的一种悲喜交加中煎熬着，不尽的雾里看花的感受要到何时才是尽头。究竟要有一种怎样的勇敢和坚强才能这样坚持的走下去。

每个人都选择了自己不同的生活方式，在享受这种生活方式的乐趣的同时也放弃了一些什么，而我，得到的是什么，失去的又是什么。而人原来也是在不断的认识自己，学习自己，在通过和他人的交往中看到自己，感悟自己。与小婧的相识，让我看到，原来我们都是一样的，外表刚强，但内心却无比需要温暖和真诚的关怀，需要真正懂得的人的关怀。有些东西，也许是自己的倔强让自己无法承认而已吧，就像我总是努力的忽视我选择的这种生活方式中伴随而来的孤寂和担忧，而又有谁能够真的发自内心的去理解这种感受呢？懂得，真的是这个世上最无比珍贵的东西。就像最初的梦想中歌词，多渴望懂得的人能够给些温暖借个肩膀。也许是吧，要强的我总是忽视自己脆弱的一面。

我不知道何时会是天亮，我并不知道上帝究竟在给我一个怎样的考验，而我又应该如何在这场并不公平的较量中达到我想要的，这将是怎样的一种委屈，怎样的一种质疑？为什么在这个世界上有如此之多的限制，为什么你的国籍这么重要？为什么每次的签证都是这样的提心吊胆，为什么在最高层的商业圈里，那么罕见亚洲人的背影，我一直在想，what do I really stand for? 我想，我想为后来人树立一个榜样，去打破一种思维的束缚，去证实中国人的顽强和智慧，我知道，我现在所承受的无处倾诉的痛苦和煎熬，正是对我韧性和品质的最好磨练，无论前路多么艰难，international marketing的梦想从来就不曾破灭过，我明白，在未来之后的某天，当我真的可以挥洒自如的用我的知识，经验去引导一个品牌成长，引导一个行业的发展，去传播一个品牌背后伟大的精神的时候，我会明白，当初的我，频频碰壁，却总是不肯放弃的坚持是那么有意义。还记得吗，燕子，在你十九岁一个人的云南之行中，你对自己的诺言，永远都不会放弃一个可以让我流泪的目标，一个地方和一个人，六年过去了，让我最自豪，最欣慰的就是，你从来未曾失言过。是的，这六年中，我失败过，我经历过挫折，经历过欲罢不能，欲求不得，但是我却从来从来都没有放弃过。重新回顾自己在十八岁时写下的游记，是那样的纯净，那样的顽强和认真。

走出藏族村，坐在一条僻静的小河边，泪水无法停止地滑落，是为什么，我自己也不知道，人是应该有梦想的，在这个世界上，能有一个地方让你感动的想哭，有一个目标让你情愿去承受一切苦难，这是一种幸福啊！我明白了，我终于明白了，在这个世界上，有一种苦是甜的，泪水是一种幸福，只要你有追求，在追求着，就是幸福的。如果在这个世界上有一个目标，有一个地方，有一个人，让你想到就会禁不住流泪，那就千万不要轻易错过，也许错过，你会痛恨终身的，人活着要有一种精神，这种精神支撑和指引着你、这种精神会把苦化为甜，泪水不是软弱，为目标积淀的每一滴汗水都是值得的！

Was motivert mich?

2008-09-09T23:06:00.002+02:00

Das ist eine gute Frage. Ich liebe Motiverungsbücher, Motivierungsfilme, Motivierungsansprache, Weil ich Kraft von diesen Geschichten bekomme.

Als ich jung war, ich war ein schlechter Student, habe nicht die meine Hausaufgabe fertig gemacht, versagte in der Prüfung, liebe nicht die Schule. Mein Vater begann Briefe zuschreiben. Ich war bewegt von Vaters Briefen und seiner Liebe, arbeitete hart, und einem halben Jahr, bin ich ein super Student geworden.

Träume können mich auch motivieren, und eine Reise (lange Reise) ist auch eine gute Motivation, hilf mir zuverstehen was mein lieblings Ziel ist. Ein wirklicher Freund ist auch wunderbar. Näturlich ist dein Interesse wichtig, das ist dein bester Lehrer!

Schließlich musst du an ein Wunder glauben, sonst kann ich nichts wirklich motivieren.

哇，看起来好酷，居然发了一篇德语的！这篇写的好有感觉，多谢大卫的指导！继续加油！

Love

2008-08-12T13:42:00.001+02:00

Let there be spaces in your togetherness,And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.
Love one another, but make not a bond of love:
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
Fill each other's cup, but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread, but eat not from the same loaf.
Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone.
Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.
Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping,For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.

电影引用- 因为幸福如履冰

2008-07-23T00:02:00.003+02:00

“ 幸福，让人觉得温暖安全，又有一种如履薄冰的恐慌。”

“有故事的人才能创作出璀璨的作品”
“人生不能总忘后看，这样永远都不会前进。”

“就算我这一辈子不能够跟我喜欢的人在一起，但是，我和她在一起的一切，都能够变成我创作的养分。如果你忘不掉过去，那就不要忘记。埋在心底里，作为人生故事的一部分，把沉寂的过去变成养料。”

“认真的女人最美丽”

The most important thing you can have is HEART

2008-07-03T15:16:00.001+02:00

Saw a movie yesterday, Millor Dollar Baby, was a sad ending, quite different than what I expect.
The movie begins with "people say the most important thing you can have is heart...." and I got attracted immediately.
Yeah, how many people would have this courage and heart to carry on their life? to believe what you believe firmly? How many people would get their shot? Yeah, there would be the time, people say to you: you are too old to be trained as a fighter, I do not train a girl, you do not have talent, and you have very little chance to win. Will you choose to believe them or believe yourself? Will you give up or continue?
So moved by this girl, especially when she tells calmly, “I am a fighter”
Life is interesting for its uncertainty, you never know what will happen tomorrow, and you might be really insignificant today, but who knows what you will be tomorrow. Just keep on doing what you want to do; what you love to do, one day, the person to explore your potential would come up! Still remember, when you truly want something, the whole universe will conspire to help you!

Some quotes from movies!

2008-06-01T22:19:00.004+02:00

Always grab some nice thoughts or quotes from movies, this one I really have to remember:

1. Each minute of your life, you could have the chance to turn things around!

What you are not satisfied with the current moment, and do something to turn it around. Remember, you have the magic to turn it around! Just give a bit of control and motivation, and start to do it, you can really turn it around!

2. Forgive, is giving away your hate, and give a bit more space in your heart!

Sometimes, forgive can be so hard, and I really know the feeling. You live in this world so short time, so why waste time to make some many enemies and angers in your world. That is very stupid. So forgive, if someone ever hurt you, and ask for forgiveness, if ever you did something really wrong.

3. As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it is harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You' ll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You will cry because time is passing too fast, and you will eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you will never get back. Don't be afraid that your life will end, be afraid that it will never begin.

One day you will know what love is!

2008-05-30T22:54:00.002+02:00

One day, you will know what love is! It is sour and sweet, and I know what sour is, which will make me appreciate sweet! Everyone in love who never taste sour, would not understand what sweet is.

The sweet is never sweet without sour.

My 4 golden rules in dealing with people

2008-05-27T23:52:00.009+02:00

Whenever I have problems with people, I always think: why this guy is so tough? why he is so stupid? why he is so annoying me?! But actually, have you ever thought about, it can be your problem also? Why you always want to blame on others, and try to excuse yourself?

Yan, I want you take it easy! I want you give more confidence and more trust on yourself and also onto the persons you love and like! Love as you never get hurt!

1. Take it easy! Be tolerant, be really tolerant, be flexible, people are people, people are not perfect, people make mistakes, people sometimes disappointed you.. sometimes annoy you, people sometimes selfish, sometimes a bit careless. Think about whether you will still remember today and this moment or this argument in 10 years later, will you? if you do, then try hard to make it be a good result, if not, then you should TAKE IT EASY! I bet 99% of the annoying moment you would hardly remember in even 1 year! So I ask you to TAKE IT EASY & BE FLEXIBLE!

2. Give more trust and confidence to the people you love and you like, give more trust to the people you love is not an easy thing, and you need to be brave! and also this is the best way you can take off your burden! Don't waste time to guess why someone did not reply you. Give the trust, your life could be much easier and a lot less complicated! Give the trust means you will not be angry when someone did not meet your expectation.

What will cost you if you do not trust? I will live in my little scared world and be afraid and scared of everything, and have no really good relationship, and be upset in evaluating whether this person said make sense, or on the hard decision to be or not to be! I bet I will end up going to some mental disease hospital! Trust till the day people really cheat you, really disappointed you, since I believe, 99% of people are good, are trustworthy!

3. You are not the center of the world! So no expectations to people, no assumed rules and principles, no assumptions if I were him, I would not do in this way, no expectations, nobody has the responsibility to do something for you, people should not do exactly as you wish, so no expectations!

4. Believe what you gave, you will get back, if you shout and scream to the mountains, the echo is also screaming, if you are encouraging, and well-mannered, you heard the same response. If there is some problems in dealing with people, then try to find out the problem on yourself, not others, think about how should react to make best of the situation. Think about how others would feel if you are in others' shoes!

A lesson to learn

2008-04-28T00:14:00.003+02:00

In life, at different time, you always will have interesting lesson to learn, sometimes, the learning can be really hard, and really painful. Since I am very small, I always know clearly what I want, and working very hard to approach what I want. It is always easy for me to keep on fighting than giving it up.

Till one day, I know that there is a lesson, which I really have to learn, and have to master it, it is called, let it go! Let it go, it is surely very difficult for me. Cause there are so many nice things in your life, it is just too beautiful and too nice to just let it go. You need to be really mature and wise to know the art of letting it go. Don't be greedy to life, do not be selfish, do not be egoist. Let it go if it is really a better way. Let it go, struggling can not give you inner peace. Let it go, free too much ambitious, free those things which actually not belong to you, take off some burden in life, in order to put on something which is really important for you. Why not?

So if you are in the dilemma, if it is so hard to decide, but you can do nothing about it, if you tried your best, still looks so far, if you are already not satisfied with what you do, you changed too much about yourself, then it is time to let it go. What for? For the new hope in your life, for the new horizon, the coming spring! For the inner peace which will truly empower you, for this security feeling which you know that you are doing the right thing, for giving the space to God, give Him the timing and space to show your the way, to trust, there must be a reason behind it. Don't be capricious, do not ask for everything ready NOW. do not be impatient, what belongs to you deserve your waiting, and your expecting. Believe, you are always fighting, for a better yourself, you are always honest to yourself, you are always positive and believe you are growing, you are bit by bit approach your destiny, your mission. As I know that I am doing the right thing, I am walking on my path, I am in my way, I felt happiness, I felt moving, I felt warm and safe. I felt that I am the control of my life. This is so good:)

If you ever want something badly, let it go. If it comes back to you, then it’s yours forever. If it doesn’t, then it was never yours to begin with.

Calm down,little girl

2008-02-10T16:44:00.002+01:00

Hi,dear,please do not so desperate! Just calm down and take your time to enjoy your new life. Embrace Berlin really hard!

Concentrate on the things you are doing, do them good, do them perfect.

Calm down, calm down, there are so many wonderful things in your new life in Berlin!

Let it go!

2008-02-04T22:20:00.000+01:00

Soon I will start my new journey in Berlin, Germany. I beg this would be such an important turning point in my life! 2007 has been a really tough year for me, so far I can say, it is one of the hardest year in my life even! I 've been twice in the edge of ending of the relationships, and now, I just have to say, it is enough for me. I really won't let myself involve anymore!

God, Please give me more peace in my heart, please show me my real mission, please give me the courage to let it go, and let it be. please, give me the power and grace to recover my bleeding heart! Let all those stories be forgotten, and just gone with wind. God, please let me be strong, and let me take on the responsibility of my own. Let me contribute myself as much as I can in the new work!

Yesterday, I heard something which really shocks me,".....this is the path I chose, and I won't hesitate to go forwards!..." Yes, I am now on the track I chose for myself. I won't hesitate to go forwards anything!

Forget about it, concentrate on your new life! There are lots of surprises waiting for you ahead!

All your experienced, is a great treasure for you! If you really tried your best, could have no regret!

Peaceful

2008-01-26T15:13:00.001+01:00

Suddenly,I feel a true feeling of peaceful, which I have searched for so long time. I do not have fear anymore, I feel secure, I feel sure about what I am going to do. I know I am on the right track, and I know, I have my missions to fulfill.

I do not want to think too much, thanks, God, thank you for showing me the direction. I will follow the road you chose for me, and I will perform my special talent for the mission you have designed for me.

Comes and Goes

2008-01-01T22:00:00.000+01:00

Some people come into your life, while some people will gradually leave from your life. Just like you get something while you will also lose something. Like the moon, sometimes it is round, sometimes it is crescent. All in all, there is something, you can do nothing with it.

Sometimes, we really like someone, and really wish they will not go from your life, sometimes, we are not satisfied with someone, but have to deal with him so long. I remember that J told me, When you truly love someone, you should let him go.

When you can not decide what the other person will do, then just let it go and let it be. I still believe do not importune. Do not importune, means if this is yours, it will end up as yours, no matter what you go through. If it is not yours, no matter how hard you tried, perhaps it is still in vain.

So then, what you can do to face all those? Just be happy that you have met some nice and interesting persons in your life, and when it is their time to leave, then wish them all the best and say goodbye to them. After all, our life can not be happy in the constrain.

So now, please have a smile, you did everything you should. God knows better who should be the one stay forever with you. I beg, I have someone who has really strong and determined will.

Sometimes, people ask, how will you feel when you know actually the one who you are with will not be the one you will get married with? I really can not accept this idea before, but now, I feel, yeah, who knows, all we can do is try our best, and as for what will be the result, sometimes, up to two willing hearts, sometimes, there is something called luck. But I also believe, if one of them is not willing enough, then it is no way at all. In this case, if you can not make it, you should feel happy, cause anyway, this person will fail, and if him/her failed in a eariler test, then just let it go, and let it be.

About childhood dream

2007-12-16T12:35:00.002+01:00

I saw a video in the youtube, about a young professor Randy, who got the cancer and will die soon, the topic of the video is about childhood dream. How many dreams he has, and how does he try to realize them. It is a very impressive lesson.

Well, thereby, I started to think and remember my childhood dream, which seems lost for quite a long time. When I was very small, I was expected to be an artist, drawing the nice picture, etc. My father started to train me when I was four. Somehow, I believe I have the talent of drawing and writing. But that seems not my cake.:) In the high school, I am good at chemistry, and wish to be a chemist. Probably I will invent some new medicine to heal incurable disease. But somehow, this goal did not stay long with me. In the university, I am very passionate with news and reporting, and I became a leader of unviersity journalist team.

And then I am now on the track of marketing. Marketing is something that really can excited me. It is such a amazing subject which combines lots of my hobbies and talents. Well, this is about my career, but perhaps not dream.

Even though I changed many times about what I really will do in my life, but one thing has never changed since I am very young. I remember one day, I was just writing down a random sentence in my diary, which I never forget, "I wish I could go to discover, remember and record all the beautiful, true, lovely, and kind moment and things in the world, with my heart, my camera, and my pen". And I believe this is something really special for me, and I gradually accept that is my mission, since it has followed me so many years without change.

People say, one's behavior is supported by his/her internal value, this is totally true. Even though, during certain period of life, you can be lost, confused, and no exact aim for life, but your value is so strongly influencing you. I love marketing, I do, but somehow, I just can not satisfy myself if I have to limited to Chinese marketing. My value told me, I should fly, I should see the world. I should not settle down and stop exploring, so I am continuing, even though, sometimes, it is just so hard.

Next time, I should make a long list about what I wish to come true when I was young.

1. I wish I could go to the coffee garden in Africa, and see how coffee is growing.
2. I wish I could travel around the world, because of my work.
3. I wish I will learn how to fly, with airplane. How to dive, and how to do cool water-skiing.
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Life is a daring journey

2007-12-07T20:55:00.000+01:00

Life is a daring journey, it is either a great adventure or nothing. This is what I believe.

Life can be whatever you thought it is, and it is always easy for someone who is in his good times. You feel you are so lucky, everything is in your favor. But it is indeed a hard thing, to still believe yourself, believe tomorrow will be another day, or you are blessed by God. People are tend to be really fragile in the hard times. For example now, it is truly and indeed my hard time for latest two years.

As you look back your life, you always thought, why the problems in your 10s or 20s are so easy, even though you felt frustrated and hopeless at that time, but come on, you strive till now, and it seems everything is fine, God just played a really tiny little test to you. But how about now? why everything seems so serious? I started to feel it is not any more a simple test!

How should I carry on? I tried to tell myself, give more time and patience to what you believe, but I feel I am quite foolish. But I always tell myself, do not give up, do not! Cause you never know how close you are near the oasis! So I will still be patient, and believe my time will come soon!

This is life, perhaps, just up to how you believe and how you do!